Wednesday, November 10, 2010

11 Questions - Part 1

     One of the main reasons I've undertaken this blog is because I'm tired of a lot of the language that traditional religious and spiritual writing uses. Such words often seem tiresome, overused or emptied out of feeling or soul. The words lack heart. I think life's too short for that.
     Fresh language about the deeper things of life is always getting made or spoken, but we're so close, we often miss the depth. For me, one great source of such new language is poetry. Whether your taste runs to Anne Sexton, T.S. Eliot or Amiri Baraka, poets seem to just get it about connection and meaning. They give us some original ways to see and touch and feel our world, inside and out.
     "There lives the dearest freshness deep down things," wrote poet Gerard Manley Hopkins, whom no one could accuse of writing trite words or tiresome images. Our experience of life, deep down, is much more immediate and strong and new(at least to us) to be captured in cliched words or exhausted images.
     My hunch is that a lot of us spend more time picking out just the right greeting card than working to find the words to express or communicate our most important experiences and feelings. By reading this and thinking about such issues, you've already begun to do it differently. Here's a set of questions I've used with people to help them discover at least some elements of their unique spirituality. Have some fun with them!
     1. What song (or novel, biography, play, film, kid's book, piece of art etc.)  has a special  place in your heart? Why?   
     2. Name a few people you admire, inside and outside of family & friends. Say why.
     3. Look at a time you've overcome a difficult event or situation in your life. What got you through? What were the gifts in that hard time?
     4. Do you ever have a sense of gratitude for your life? What are you grateful for?
     5. If there were a novel or film made about your family, what would be the themes?
                                                 To be continued

3 comments:

  1. Thanks for your thoughtfulness AGAIN.
    I am reminded of how much I looked forward to and enjoyed ur in-services at BBL.

    Lookin forward
    Rudy

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  2. I hope that many of your readers take the time to "do the work" as well as just read the blog. Your e-mail inbox could well be filled with answers to 11 Questions......

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  3. Fresh language, in whatever context, is important. The element are different for everyone, but come back to the same feelings, thoughts and emotions. Just worn as a different suit of clothes. Somethings to protect, sometimes to strengthen, sometimes to inspire. I've always prided myself on being a cynical optimist: can those exist with a realist who doesn't wear his values on his sleeve but in his heart for all to see who can come forward with a like outlook, a smiling appreciation of the many things that our lives bring us. If this works for me it doesn't feel like "work" even in moments of travail and sorrow. The cynic says its work and that it hurts; the optimist finds an open window. Dale

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